Yan's Dairy 2 - I not baby hor, I 5 yr old already

Yan's just celebrated his 4th birthday in Nov, but he is already eager to be 5. Well, I beleive in School(childcare) the teacher must have told them that they are 5 years old this year and they are in K1. I like to call him baby and he will reply " I not baby hor, I 5 year old already"....

Can't remember was it 11 Dec or 18 Dec, Yan suddenly said that he wanted to shower himself during bath-time. Well, I thought,why not. So I turn on the shower head for him. I told him that I would stayed outside the bathroom to watch him shower. Wow!!! I was so amazed, he really can shower himself, rubbing the shampoo on head and shower cream on his body, I just need to help him on the back where he can't reach and after which off the shower head when he was done...I gave him 100marks or whatever maximum mark I can give, I am really impressed by this 4 year old boy!!!! Well, as his mischievous nature the next few days even now, when I let him shower on his own, he will have lots of fun inside the bathroom & start to splash water when I stayed outside watching...unlike the first time when he tried to proof himself, so well behaved....hahaha...that's my boy lah.

Yan's Diary 1 - Every = All

Yan often said "all_body..."

Well that's Yan's language, so cute...tho I often have to correct him, " its Everybody not All_body"...but how do you explain??? 'Every' and 'All' to certain extend carried the same meaning....hahaha...

Yan's Diary 1- Every = All

Yan often said "all_body..."

Well that's Yan's language, so cute...tho I often have to correct him, " its Everybody not All_body"...but how do you explain??? 'Every' and 'All' to certain extend carried the same meaning....hahaha...

影子... ...

偶然间,一位友人向我诉说了他对某人的爱慕.他会因某人说的某些话而高兴一阵天,也会因某人的一句话难过不已....会因某人做了一些事而兴奋,也因某人的一些举动而感到不快乐....某人的微笑可以使他有一阵天的好心情,某人的不快乐也能让他悲伤....

虽然,没有一一帮他数看某人带给他的快乐多一些,还是悲伤多一点....但觉得活在别人的影子里真的会快乐吗??....我觉得,人应该活出自己.快乐与悲伤,虽说不能百分之一百的掌握在手里,但很多时候,是可以自我控制与选择的....

做为他的朋友我也只能细细宁听和说出自己的看法.要不要跳出别人的影子,也只能由他自己决定了.不论如何,每个人必尽不一样.他的决定并没那么重要,重要的是他能得到真正的幸福....

我祝福....!!!

Dilemma...

In the dictionary it means "situation offering a choice between two equally undesirable/desirable alternatives.

I have been put into such situation quite often lately, or should I say I have been using the word "dilemma" quite often lately....?

But to me...actually...we don't have to be bothered by it too much or think too much. Because no matter which option we chose, it will branch out to different options again...and it is the unknown that we are choosing from...we can only base on our gut feel and analysis to choose the one that we think most likely giving us the best outcome, but the key word is "most likely" and nothing is definite....the predicted best outcome might not come true, instead might be disaster....so wat if we make a bad choice, where the whole world telling u that that's a wrong decision...things might turn out otherwise or it might branch out to other options which will lead u to the outcome that u most desired.....whatever it is, NO BODY KNOWS

Now that I am again in a dilemma, sigh....I will think what is best at this moment, cos even at the end of it that it is not a good choice at least I know that that's my choice and I have a reason for choosing it, so no regret...and if I move on it might lead me to other opportunity....

Kids Therapy

Brought Yan to my work place on Sat(26/8/06)

We spent most of our time at the Nursing home, most Ah mah and Ah pak was happy to see kids around, some even search their drawer and table to find sweets and biscults to offer... was a bit worry initiately that its overwhelming for Yan...but after awhile, Yan even move close to the bed rail and extend his hand out to shake the ah pak's and ah mah's hands without me even asking. Some started hugging and kissing him, he appearred to be a bit shy but was fine...

Guess all of us, Ah pak, ah mah, Yan and myself enjoyed this meaningful trips!

我要去旅行了... ...

在偶然谈话中,我和好友突然发现我们认识了19年,却还从没一起出过国!!所以决定了这次的旅游...

决定了去柬埔寨是我最高兴不过的.因为这是我一直想去的国家.我甚至计划想要有一天自己一个人背包到这个国家去.当然,因为安全理由家人并不很看好我的这个想法...

现在,我终于可以和我最好的朋友一起去啦!!!

好友对这次旅行有好多的想发.因为知道了柬埔寨有很多孩子们没机会上学而伦为小乞丐的社会问题.我们俩积极的想要尽自己的小小力量为他们做些什么.这些日子来的绸备已让我们俩的生活变的更加有意义与充实了... ...

柬埔寨! 我来了!!

殷正洋戏歌说唱会

19/8/06
E....我们到了入口处,怎么没看到下期的说唱会海报??十月没有说唱会吗?

殷正洋一出场我先被他的身型吸引住...我是因为重逢才记起这个名字的.那时并没主意到他有那么高(约180吧)

再吓!!他一开口,我简直被他的声音迷住了.一阵晚陶醉在他的柔声细语和辽亮歌声中,心里浮线了---"他真的唱到我心里面去了!"

Shhh...不要告诉别人我迷恋了他一个晚上.....(secret ou)